HEART MATTERS: He wants kids, I'm too young

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I got this from a reader of this blog and I have decided to share it with you. She needs your advice, kindly drop them at the comment section. And get ready for more HEART MATTERS as I intend to publish them on Fridays. If you want to share yours, feel free to e-mail @ gumshoebee@gmail.com; we will protect your confidentiality, it is a pledge from me to you. winks.

Ok, to today's heart matters:

"I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 33, working with a good pay. He's ready to start a family with me, but I feel like I'm too young to even start thinking about having kids. I'm flattered that he wants me as the mother of his children but the thought scares me too. I am hoping that I gain admission to the university this year as I will sit for my SSCE and UTME later in the year.  He's the only guy I've ever dated (a secret, he deflowered me).  I really care about him a lot and I dread losing him. How do I tell him I'm not ready for kids without him breaking up with me over it?"