This is the view of popular blogger and relationship counsellor, Myne Whitman on the failed marriage of star actress, Funke Akindele and her husband, Kehinde Oloyede.A lot of talk will of course follow this news of Funke Akindele's separation from the husband after being married for just over a year. Some are already throwing blames even before any further details have been released, it's either Kehinde Oloyede was a womanizer or Funke may have thought her marriage was a movie romance script.
Now, I don't know about Funke and her husband, but this is what I will tell any one, married or unmarried who is scared when they hear news of marriage break-ups; DON'T BE SCARED.
Before marriage, look before you leap, and if you went in and start seeing something more than you, please consider whether there can be reconcilaition, if not, separation and divorce are great options for peace of mind and happiness. Marriage is not everything.
And yes, men hold the key to a marriage not women. God is love, the fulcrum of marriage is love, and it is men that got that charge in the bible, love your wives, as Christ loves the church! Whether she submits or not love her, and the more you love her, the more you will love her.
In addition to the love that God gives us for our spouses, I am also madam mills and boon, so women and men, romance your partners, inside the bedroom and outside, and you will testify. I wish everyone more love and happiness, marriage is to be enjoyed not endured :)
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